You can only follow your conscience. Were I in your place I would tell my best friend what I know.
It might be that she knows and appears to be ignorant to save face, and maybe not. Some relationships are like this, and many are not.
The eaisest way to tell your friend might be to show her a printout of his online profile. Say 'look what I found' and that you are worried about her.
If everything is OK between them there should be no harm done.
Marriage is supposed to be based on trust and commitment.
If he is doing this behind his wife's back then he has betrayed her trust and the basic premise of marriage.
Would you be happy if one of your friends knew your husband (for eg.) was doing this and they didn't tell you?
Probably not.
If your friend becomes angry that you stuck your nose in - simply tell her you did it because you care about her, your best friend.
TTFN
Sue.
lana.ingham wrote:
I hope that I can get some ideas off some of you here....
One of my best friend's husbands is a cheater - and she has no idea...
I know this is a fact - he has hit on me and also a few other mutual
friends. At first I thought he was just joking but one of my friends
has found his profile in a singles site and he is definately trying to
get the women. He is succeeding too if one can believe what he has
told her in there (he has no idea who he is sending messages to with
her; as she has not let on who she really is to him. Just seeing what
he says to her.)
I don't know if I agree with that part. But the part I know I really
don't agree with is the fact that he is DOING this and his wife has NO
idea and it would devastate her if she knew.
Apparantely he has done this for years, he isn't a youngen by any
means - he is pushing 64-65 years old. I just don't know what to do or
whether to do anything about it anyway.
But then I talk to his wife, my best friend and I feel so sad about it
all.
What does a person do in this situation???
Any ideas will be very appreciated.
