--- In mylifeismine@
<sangita142002@
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> The Zahir is one of the best books i have read in my life. In my
opinion all married couples should read this book. i have never
seen anyone take such a unique view of marriage and love. i feel all
husbands shoud read this book. And also all women so they can get
an idea of what it is like to have real courage in a relationship, to
struggle to preserve your own identity. in this day and age when
relationships are becoming more about convinience its a gbook that takes
you back to the basics. Why are you with this person? Do u respect his
or her identity? Or is this person there in your life only to serve some
need of yours? Are you in the relationship for the sheer joy of it or is
it just routine? Truly a lovely book.
> Regards Sangita
>
> --- On Wed, 3/9/08, Igor Fuchs i_fuc@... wrote:
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> From: Igor Fuchs i_fuc@...
> Subject: Re: [mylifeismine] Relationship Delusions
> To: mylifeismine@
> Date: Wednesday, 3 September, 2008, 3:41 AM
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> Hi,
> interesting you saying that about cds, they are very helpfull indeed.
> Lately am reading a novel from "Paulo Coelho" call " Zahir". and talks
about "love".
> He was married and his wife left him to somewhere unknown, and he
spends the next 2 yars looking for her or his old love. The problem is
he is mixing up love with obessesion and not sure what is anymore... he
needs to find himself first b4 find his wife. Very interesting point.
Maybe all of us need to find ourselves first b4 finding new love...
cheers
>
> Â
> igorfuchsydney
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>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: Guy DeByl guy.debyl@gmail. com>
> To: mylifeismine@ yahoogroups. com.au
> Sent: Tuesday, 2 September, 2008 1:58:33 PM
> Subject: Re: [mylifeismine] Relationship Delusions
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>
> what you say is pretty interesting. . and yes.. i'm interested in
reading more about what you are learning from the cds.
>
>
> On 9/1/08, Lisa Dean <songsfromthebody@ yahoo.com> wrote:
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> Dear i fuc and others from the "My Life is Mine" group
> Â
> I am currently listening to cds about relationships by Marianne
> Williamson. She also wrote the book "A Return to Love" and
> this is a discussion about the book "A Course in Miracles"
> and I don't know who wrote this.Â
> Â
> Anyway, the cds (four) are a series of public lectures, that she
> has made around the world. She talks about the "relationship
> delusions" that we have.
> Â
> And one of them is that someone else can make us happy.
> Â
> She says that while we believe that another person, the "perfect"
> person can be our saviour we will never be happy. There is no
> perfect person, we all need to learn to love everyone the same.Â
> Â
> Relationships work better when they are approached as a result
> of desire, and not need.Â
> Â
> I'm still listening, and learning and trying to understand it.Â
> Â
> One of the things she says we do, is to create a picture in our
> minds of what the relationship can be like. Generally, this
picture
> is blown to pieces pretty quickly, because the two people have
> two different pictures of how they want it to be.Â
> Â
> I will be glad to share this more, as I listen more to the cds.Â
> Â
> Let me know what you think.Â
> Â
> Regards,
> Â
> Lisa
> Â
> Â
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> "The misfortunes of childhood affect the whole of one's life and leave
an inconsolable well of sadness in the heart of man" P Bridas
>
> --- On Wed, 3/14/07, i_fuc i_fuc@yahoo. com> wrote:
> Â
> From: i_fuc i_fuc@yahoo. com>
> Subject: [mylifeismine] understand you perfectly,
> To: mylifeismine@ yahoogroups. com.au
> Date: Wednesday, March 14, 2007, 10:36 AM
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> Hi mate,
> To be honest don't know how to help you now. wish could have a
> couple of coffee and a good healthy chat to get the things out of
> the heart.(both, mine and yours)
> I feel the same, trying to find someone to talk to. Someone who
> could listen understand and give some good advices.
> Yet, don't have anyone. Am single, 46 and wish i could have a family
> like yours. I feel that the time is going buy and i will be alone.
> In the other hand you have your family and seems that you are alone
> too. Life is funny heh!
> Well, i am trying to read a lot, but also have to go to work and
> when i get home after 8pm, i can read only a page and fall asleep.
>
> Just before your message i sugested to a girl to read the book "the
> secrets" by Rhonda Byrne. Please, read it, it is inspiring and
> teachs you how to change your negative thoughts to posite ones.
>
> Hope you have a nice reading and things starts changing for better
> to you.
> with lots of kindness, me
>
> --- In mylifeismine@ yahoogroups. com.au, "j32217" j32217@ wrote:
> >
> > Hi all,
> >
> > I just joined the group today and hopefully will get to know" the
> > like-minded people through the group eventually.
> > The reason for me to join the group is I want to see how others
> who
> > are in the similar situation as mine cope with their lives. I am
> 42
> > and married and have one daughter starting year 7 this year. Life
> is
> > OK but rather bland in many ways. Weekdays there a lot of routine,
> > work, home, work, home. Weeekends are basically filled with
> grocery
> > shopping, home cleaning, kind of thing. Our marriage is again OK
> but
> > somewhat boring, I probably don＊t have that much to talk to my
> wife
> > other than ※how＊s your day§ kind of stuff, nor does
she to me.
> > Getting into teenager, my daughter starts to have more debates
> with
> > us. I have read books about relationships with young adolescent
> kids
> > but in reality it＊s not that easy.
> > So I really feel that life has lost its sparkle now. I am only 42
> and
> > I don＊t want to be like that. I want to have a change. I am
> telling
> > myself to think positively but it doesn＊t seem to be working
that
> > well. I tried to pick up new hobbies such as carpentry. I also try
> to
> > play more tennis. But I feel I want to make new friends, really
> good
> > friends with whom I can talk my heart out, and share our ups and
> > downs.
> >
>
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> i'm glad that i join this, and i enjoyed reading the articles whenever
i 've a free moment to kill, and find it very valuable to pass time
with,.
> i also in the single situation for quite sometime, since 1990, have
not find anyone to love me enough to marry again.
> life, very busy all the time for working, especially a single mom,
althrough my children are adult for quite long time, but still you don't
really have the energy to waste for any unneccerary.
> even there's time when i would probably go out to a dinner or movie, i
would prefer to spend the valuable time with my daughter instead.
> bad relationship experiences did made me felt it's time for me to be
more smart, and to take good care for my soul, feeling, as well as my
physical well being.
>i think if i wanted to be a better person, which i've always try to
improve myself whenever i've a chance, is to be with my family, and
forgetting about myself, as i spend too much already with work.
> soon the children will have their own life, then it will right timing
for me to have life too, but as for now i think it's best we share our
time together...?
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