Hi malcolm Going through a divorve is so painful. It ranks in the top three in reasons that cause stress. You must be under enormous stress. And under the influence of so many conflicting emotions. Its no wonder you are confused. However the divorce is done with (I presume). I don't when you got divorced, i.e. are you very recently divorced or was it a while ago? If its been recent, just pack away that sheet and deal with it when your wounds have had time to heal. Time does heal at least partially and maybe after a while you will able to face this article with not so much emotional confusion. No need to send it back to her either, I suppose if she had wanted it she would have kept it. If keeping the sheet is going to keep making you miserable then there really is no point in hanging on to it. A lot does depend on the circumstances of your divorce - I mean why exactly you got divorced. If its just one of those gradually falling out of love things, then why not just keep it to remind you that you were fortunate to have loved and been loved once.. Even if it did'nt last. It will always be one of life's precious memories.. But if looking at it is going to cause you to be swamped with negative emotions then there is no point in hanging on to it. like I said if the divorce is recent pack it away and tell yourself you will look at it a year later and then decide. When the intensity has gone down then you will be able to figure out things a littel better. Good luck to you in a tough time in your life. Stay calm and just take care of yourself. Regards Sangita --- On Sun, 12/7/09, matt Norton <great0161@yahoo.
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