dear sangita , what you said about comparing tragedies is so true.i believe anyway. i am a survivor and proud of it. i cant say that i would want to sit down and have a cuppa and a chat with different people but i dont wish them any harm either just want to get on with living my life to the fullest i can
From: sangita borgave <sangita142002@
To: mylifeismine@
Sent: Monday, 6 July, 2009 9:02:47 PM
Subject: Re: [mylifeismine] Re: Success Inc.
| We don't want to compare tragedies. Saying to one person my life's worse then your's' does'nt get us anywhere. To each person his or her own tragedy is the worst no matter how trivial it may seem to another who has sufferred far worse. We must all respect each others sorrows. Yes suddenly just as you are doing well, are upbeat on a good path something suddenly happens to drag you back to the wretched memories of the past. And we feel discouraged. At such times it is best to accept that feeling and that memory quietly and gracefully. At this point in life all of us must hold our heads high with pride and be able to say "yes!! I survived that! Life tried to shoot me down (with an abusive spouse, drugs, rape, no money, loneliness ) and I overcame it! I stand tall with all my battle scars and I can look anyone in the eye and say yes! I went through that and came out alive, as pure as gold!" None of us need be depressed or ashamed at what we went through. We survived and thats what matters. I wish that instead of looking back at past tragedies with pain and grief (no matter how bad they were) we could look back with a calm acceptance and a sense of pride at having handled so much. Hold no gruges against people who have treated you very badly - no matter how badly. We really would have happier people on this planet. I hope I am not sounding too glib or superficial. My sincere feeling is that many people here in this group who have been abused need to realise that despite what they have been through they are amazing people with enormous potential. They are funny and warm and humurous and intelligent. And they can live each day with immense happiness and joy. Does'nt matter how bad another person was to you. There is something wrong with that person, not you! Warm Regards to all Sangita --- On Sun, 5/7/09, Kim Hillier <kanga4282@yahoo. com.au> wrote:
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