Re: [mylifeismine] Re: Reflections on "Bad Memories"



Here I am with Perry. Not to be in any way unsympathetic to Matt but I agree with Perry.
 
 Rape is a whole differant can of worms. I may not have been raped but as a woman who on some occasions has faced sexual harrassment like millions of other women I can imagine at least a little if not all of the pain. Rape is the worst of crimes as it cuts you to the very soul. To live down such pain must be unthinkable.
 But you have to walk away. At some time. Because you are better than the animals who did it. Because your life means something. Because you are a nobler and stronger person.
 
 To keep going to that dark place is to give your tormentors that power. The memories will keep coming I suppose till the day you die. All you can do is not fight them and calmly distract yourself. Do anything. Tell your self that, that memory does not have the power to destroy your present moment any more.
 
 All I can say is peace be with you. You have to walk away. You must! Its all you can do. Entertain no thoughts of revenge - just walk away.

--- On Sat, 4/7/09, matthew naughton <mattynaught01@yahoo.com> wrote:

From: matthew naughton <mattynaught01@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: [mylifeismine] Re: Reflections on "Bad Memories"
To: mylifeismine@yahoogroups.com.au
Date: Saturday, 4 July, 2009, 10:35 PM

walk away?
i dont think so
 i wish you well

From: perry enriquez <perryenriquez@ yahoo.com>
To: mylifeismine@ yahoogroups. com.au
Sent: Sunday, 5 July, 2009 2:30:41 AM
Subject: [mylifeismine] Re: Reflections on "Bad Memories"

Dear Matthew,

No flip comment. No quote. Did this happen to you? Or is it hypothetical? Whatever it is, HOW you live your life AFTER is ultimately up to YOU. Can you ever erase the bad memory? Maybe not BUT you can WALK AWAY from it. Otherwise what choice is there? Make the noose? In this regard, I can only NOT recommend. After all, this is NOT what this forum is for.

Matthew, one day, our mortal lives will end. When that day comes, we shall leave EVERYTHING behind - bad memories included! I choose to leave these bad memories HERE and NOW. That is not a flip comment, nor is it a quote. It is a FACT!

It is YOUR call. It is YOUR life.

Perry

--- In mylifeismine@ yahoogroups. com.au, matthew naughton <mattynaught01@ ...> wrote:
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> one man holds you down as another rapes you
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> can you ever erase that?
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> no flip comment or quote will help there
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> From: perry enriquez <perryenriquez@ ....>
> To: mylifeismine@ yahoogroups. com.au
> Sent: Sunday, 5 July, 2009 1:52:05 AM
> Subject: [mylifeismine] Reflections on "Bad Memories"
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> On any bright day, your shadow follows you - everywhere. Once in a while you might notice it. But would it bother you?
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> You get daily spam on your email: do you read them? or simply delete?
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> A dog looks at you with that, "'ey what's up?" quizzical look on it's face. Worth remembering?
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> A cat stares at you, as if saying, "'ey I'm a cat, and you're not." Worth remembering?
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> A baby in a pram smiles at you. Worth remembering?
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> Perry
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