Re: [mylifeismine] lost?



Hi David
 Well who amongst us has not been in a stituation like yours? When we have been tempted?! Tempatation is there every where - in that sinful chocolate cake, in the expensive dress or shoes, or that beautiful person so close by who seems to be everything our spouse is not!
 
 If you've been married 14 years then no doubt a lot of the magic has fizzled out. Life may have become routine and all about the kids. It is situations like these that test our will power and character dont you think?
 
If your wife loves you and trusts you then think of her with compassion and empathy. Forget that she is your wife but  another human being. Does she deserve this? (You said you loved your wife and kids so I am assuming all is fine with you guys).
 
I also think that the young 22 year old who is starting out in life does not deserve to have her heart broken. If she is serious about you and if you are not going to leave your wife then it will be hell for her. These things leave their scars on the mind.
 
It is so easy for men to stray. But step up and be a real man and be strong. The world needs more men like that. Be there for your family, be there for your wife and some day life will reward you when you least expect it.. Temptations are temporary really. Time takes care of all. And life always throws these challenges at us. Each and every day. Tell yourself you are man enough to resist them.
 
Best of luck
Warm regards
Sangita
 

--- On Tue, 9/6/09, david johnson <camarosa10000@yahoo.com.au> wrote:

From: david johnson <camarosa10000@yahoo.com.au>
Subject: [mylifeismine] lost?
To: mylifeismine@yahoogroups.com.au
Date: Tuesday, 9 June, 2009, 5:49 PM

hi everyone i am currently having an affair and now it's wrong have been married for 14 years 4 kids and infatuated with a 22 year old, what do i need to see the light, i know it's wrong but it feels so right when i am with her, can someone give me some advice this is the 1st time and i love my wife and kids to death, why is it so hard for me to understand that i am doing the wrong thing, probably not the right thing to post, either way my heart will be broken bigtime and i know that i am the one to blame
regards Dave



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