Re: [mylifeismine] New member

We hear you! Could'nt have put it better myself. Yes its great to have people who will just listen to you, empathise, support and just make you feel good about yourself. Not make you feel pathetic and like a loser because you are having a tough time. Sometimes all it takes is listening with the right expression. Even that helps so much.
 But kudos to you for accepting the fact that life is tough and sucks. I was reminded of a sister who is really going through a bad time but does'nt want to accept how messed up her life is. On top of that is burningly envious of me and my supposed good fortune! She does'nt seem to realise that because I dont have the same problems as her does'nt mean i dont have other issues in my life. She always chatters away as if nothing is wrong or then retreats in silence.
 I wish that instead of all these pretenses she would just honestly talk. We are family and not that far from each other in age so I could help, even if just as a sounding board. I've known her all her life. She wants my company but her ego prevents her from opening up. She's had a tough life, but frankly guys her attitude stinks so much that its difficult to tolerate it. Does that sound very horrible of me?
 Anyway sometimes life totally sucks: all you can do is hang in there.


--- On Mon, 1/12/08, jen2blu4u <jennychiu100@yahoo.com.au> wrote:
From: jen2blu4u <jennychiu100@yahoo.com.au>
Subject: [mylifeismine] New member
To: mylifeismine@yahoogroups.com.au
Date: Monday, 1 December, 2008, 6:46 PM

Hello out there, life really sucks right now. Can't stand how some
people try to "fix" you, when they havent got a clue. They just tell me
what to do & make me feel bad, & make my worries sound unimportant.
Sometimes u just want someone to listen to you,- not to tell you how
pathetic you are. Friends & relos r supposed to b supportive, not
condesending & patronising. These people plunge me deeper into
depression.

To everyone out there who r finding life tuff, hang in there.



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