Hi Rose,
There's also a lot of good info on returning to our 'happy place' and getting rid of depression from following John Gray's books (Venus and Mars, relationships)
The book titled 'Venus and Mars diet and exercise solution' shows how to manage (balance) brain chemistry through diet and re-establish a more balanced perspective, happy outlook on life.
I borrow his books from the library and the ones I like (am finding this is all of them), I try to buy second hand if I can, and new if not.
For a quick way to feel the experience of what being at the universal wavelength of Love feels like. Yes, love has an electromagnetic frequency (doesn't everything).
Look at something beautiful - this can be anything - stare at it until you feel its beauty. The sensation is akin to the feeling of being in love. It raises your energy level and when you look at another person (for eg) it will raise their energy level as well as your own.
Whenever someone shouts at you disrespectfully, this immediately drops your energy level (this happens when we shout at kids), but to raise it again use the above technique.
The first time I tried this I felt like jumping outta my skin it felt that good (lol).
It comes from 'The Celestine Prophecy' by James Redfield.
We all want to be healthy (no brainer) but to dwell on ill health is to pull this towards us. There is a fine line here.
Think about what you want in life, not on what you don't. If you have negative emotions surfacing, ask yourself why you feel the way you do. There are several levels of emotions and if we are stuck at one, think about it from another. This is how to work your way back to happiness.
If you are angry, express what you feel angry about, then ask yourself what you feel sad about, then afraid, then sorry, frustrated, disappointed, worried, embarrassed, jealous, hurt, scared then ashamed. Work through 3 or 4 levels and see if you feel better. If not, continue down the list until you do.
This is the advice offered by John Gray in "How to get what you want and want what you have".
He also offers ways to get over being blocked at emotional impasses - being stuck and unable to resolve issues.
The 12 blocks are: blame, depression, anxiety, indifference, judgement, indecision, procrastination, perfectionism, resentment, self-pity, confusion & guilt. By feeling the negative emotion that corresponds with each of these blocks, it heals us and allows us to let go and move on.
I think I want to get one of each of the books he's written. I've learnt more from reading a few of them that ever in dealing with people over the last 42 years.
We are in control of how and why we feel the way we do, and so, we can make changes for the better. We do not need to rely on anyone else but ourselves for how we feel, and John Gray has shown a way to feel the best we can.
To release any negative energy that you've built up, use running water, touch the plants in the garden, hug an old tree, sit in the branches of an old tree (young trees have too feisty an energy), walk barefoot over natural ground, meditate.
Nature recycles everything including our negative energy.
TTFN
Sue.
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