thank you sangita,
i wish i knew why my youngest daughter doesnt talk to me but i am clueless as to this.she moved into her boyfriennd and his parents place at 14 and not long after,she told me she hated me and i was no longer her mother and she never wanted to see or talk to me again.she turns 18 toward the end of the year. only then by law can i apparently make her accountable for her actions towards me.if i have to do that i will but to do that to your own daughter will be very hard.. i did every mortal thing i could for my daughter and then some.for thirteen years both my kids were subjected to physical and mentle abuse from their father. but they have been out of that for ten years now. my eldest daughter is a wonderful person. but my youngest has wiped all my family including her grandmother. i will always love her but i dont neccessarily like her or her behaviour.i will get through this but it hurts and takes a lot of (im not sure)
thank you sangita for your kind words
From: sangita borgave <sangita142002@
To: mylifeismine@
Sent: Friday, 3 July, 2009 6:04:35 PM
Subject: Re: [mylifeismine] numb
| Hi Kim My heart aches for you! Children can be so thoughtless and cruel.. All around the world there are stories of children mistreating their parents. I know you must be feeling absolutely horrible that your own daughter is acting this way. I dont mean to pry but why has your daughter disowned you? Is it just because you have never got along and your daughter is a hot tempered woman or because of any particular reason? Close relations are often so strenous. I know - there are times when my parents drive me up the wall. But ultimately you have to decide how much you are going to let it affect you and how much you just have to let go. Can't your other children act as mediators of some sort and bring about some peace? Have you talked to a close friend or any of your kids about this? Also you may love your daughter very much but that does not mean you have to be blind to her faults. If she is prone to abusing you and lacks self control then you just need to take a firm stand and decide you are not going to stand for this sort of thing. Please feel free to share your feelings here. Regards Sangita --- On Fri, 3/7/09, Kim Hillier <kanga4282@yahoo. com.au> wrote:
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