--- In mylifeismine@
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> Hi all, Just a quick look and quick reply: As obvious essential
major difference is due to main s determine hormones (testosterone
and progesterone)
growth, GLI, other hormones, enzymes, metabolism, anatomy and whole
physiology) and emotional differences. Regards, M
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> Frankomelb <frankomelb@
> Thanks for all the thoughts/opinions that have been
coming through on this forum.
> I have been reading them as they come and have found this topic
the first one to make a contribution-
>
> The biggest difference might be that guys tend to hang on until
stuff becomes overwhelming.
> We often tell ourselves that things will work out and that
everything will be alright.
> This is often a delusion as there are so many things that we have
no control over.
> When things don't work the way we hope/wish/plan and then
actually realise this new situation, it goes directly against
everything we have told ourselves and want to believe. So at that
point, it all falls apart, and we simply lose the plot and ourselves
in the process.
>
> Therapy/counselling is a wonderful thing for both the individual
as well as a couple (providing you are both committed).
> But you'll only get as much out of the sessions as you're
prepared to put in.
> That means getting real about your issues and truly talking about
and exploring your feelings.
> The difference with me perhaps is I'm a Gen-Xer who's taking
responsibility for my life fully and not prepared to put up with BS
in my life.
>
>
> ----- Forwarded Message ----
> From: Rose Lind <roselind@..
> To: mylifeismine@
> Sent: Tuesday, 26 February, 2008 7:15:05 PM
> Subject: Re: [mylifeismine] An essential difference between men and
women??
>
> Well, for me, it is like if I off-load somewhere I have the
pay the price.
>
> I see a counsellor when necessary and that is not often but a
good safety net.
>
> I guess it is not in most people's reality that counselling is a
movement forward.
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: xiaoli ma
> To: mylifeismine@ yahoogroups. com.au
> Sent: Monday, February 25, 2008 9:26 PM
> Subject: Re: [mylifeismine] An essential difference between men
and women??
>
>
> it can be embarrassing to share some things
>
> ANTHONY DWYER <tammyredsurf@ yahoo.com. au> wrote: THATS RIGHT
>
> Julie Neill <julientuareg@ hotmail.com> wrote: I was having a
discussion last night with two men regarding separation
> (surprise surprise). They both agreed that they kept their
separation
> from their wives a secret for as long as possible (both wives left
> them after 25 years +). When questioned they commented that it was
> embarrassing to tell people what had happened to them. I on the
other
> hand told everyone - whether they were interested or not!! My
opinion
> was share the load!!. Is this a male / female thing and if so why do
> men want to keep these things hidden as long as possible?
>
> Julie
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> Well my experience has been the opposite with my wife pretending to
most of her friends that she has the perfect marriage.
Her girlfriends except her best friend do not know we are seperated,
living seperate social lives for some time now.Live in seperate
bedrooms in the same house, she has an overseas man who she is about
to see and will be gone for at least two months. Really i dont
understand why she just doesnt tell people , but then i suppose I am
still the reserve partner LOL.
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