I read somewhere about a study done which showed that men were more affected by divorce than women. They found it really hard to get over with it specially if they had been with their partners for a long time. I remember feeling a little surprised by this. Women often think of men as unfeeling and indifferant. But I think men get a lot of self esteem and basic confidence from their wives when the marraige is a reasonably happy one. They want their wives to look up to them at least a little. Women can easily destroy a man's ego sometimes by comtempt, indifferance or lack of empathy. Maybe it hurts a man that someone who he thought would be there forever suddenly decides to leave.
ANTHONY DWYER <tammyredsurf@
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Julie Neill <julientuareg@hotmail.com> wrote:I was having a discussion last night with two men regarding separation
(surprise surprise). They both agreed that they kept their separation
from their wives a secret for as long as possible (both wives left
them after 25 years +). When questioned they commented that it was
embarrassing to tell people what had happened to them. I on the other
hand told everyone - whether they were interested or not!! My opinion
was share the load!!. Is this a male / female thing and if so why do
men want to keep these things hidden as long as possible?
Julie
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